Love of Kids Foundation - What Kids Can Do Themselves

Get the facts. Find out why you learn differently, and talk to your parents and teachers about ways to improve things at home and in school. Let them know it's no fun to get yelled at every time you forget something or make mistakes. You're not lazy or disruptive -- that's just the way your brain works!

Get in touch with parents and teachers. Surprise, they don't know everything -- so they might not have the knowledge to help you. But, hey, let everyone know you can work together to improve things.

Go to the library for books on related topics. If you have trouble reading, try audio-books. If you have a computer, Google away! When you find something that sounds like you, print copies for your teachers, parents, and coaches. It'll help them understand how your mind works. You'll also be better able to explain your learning challenge and make yourself feel more accepted at home and at school.

Build on your strengths to improve your learning skills. The world is made of all different kinds of minds, and each one is special. Your mind is all your own, and you need to make it work for you. What are you good at? Is there something that you know how to do that other don't? Whatever it is. do it to the best of your ability.

Buddy up with friends to help you remember homework, and keep an agenda to remind yourself of important dates and assignments. Use a color code or pictures to help you remember facts.

Talk to your teacher about being singled out in class. Create a secret signal when you don't understand instructions or classroom materials. If your teacher won't make the effort, find a coach or another teacher who understands and can work with you. Do not give up.

Sit in on parent-teacher meetings. You can do a lot to foster co-operation among the adults in your life. If you all agree on a plan, stick to it. If you can't, call another meeting and explain what's wrong.

Know yourself. Talk to your parents and teachers about what you're good at. Try to balance things that are easy and hard for you. Let people know you might take longer to do things - but you can do them! Focus on times in your life when things went well for you, and hold on to those feelings. Let people know it can be frustrating for you - and them - when things don't go well. Be patient with yourself - and ask others for their patience, too. Know you are special.